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5 steps to the real realities of career change


by Cathy Goodwin

Q. I need a career change. One coach said, "Just take action and get motivated." Another administered tests confirming what I already knew. I'm motivated!"

A. If I win the mega-million-dollar lottery, I will take out full-page ads in the Wall Street Journal: "Forget everything you've learned about career change."

Sadly, when it comes to careers, everyone's an expert.

My good friend "Brian" (who's had one career since graduating from college forty-three years ago): "If you're not happy, you should just talk to your supervisor."

My client's spouse: "Just do something - anything! You've had plenty of time to decide."

My former neighbor, wagging her finger at me: "What's the big deal? It's just a job. Tell your clients they'll be fine if they just change their attitude."

A well-known marketing coach: "Remember the saying about grass being greener."

And you can find hundreds of books and articles, online and offline. Most send me into cringe mode.

Reality #1: Career change takes time. Allow 2 to 5 years before you're happily settled and working in the new life.

What do you do in the meantime? You choose a perch job or a bridge job.

Perch job: Think of birds taking a migration break, bouncing on the high wire. You're not committed to this job and you probably wouldn't want to stay forever. But you can stop long enough to pay the bills while you search for your next major move.

Bridge job: Your job that gets you closer to a new goal. Maybe you can test your next life. Perch jobs can become bridge jobs and vice versa.

Reality #2: Career change is more like a game of "hot and cold" than a straight line.

Remember the children's game: "You're getting hot...no - you're moving away - getting colder..."

That's how career change really works, based on published research as well as my own experience.

Let's get real. If your career advisor had a test that could figure out "the perfect career for me," he wouldn't be sitting in a stuffy little office discussing your options. He'd be sipping iced drinks on a beach in the Bahamas and taking day trips on the family yacht.

Reality #3: Career change is more about action than introspection.

You can't play "hot and cold" unless you're moving around. Internet searches tend to yield outdated and biased information. Make connections. Talk to people...and then more people.

But don't confuse focused activity with mindless running in circles. When I work one-to-one with clients, we customize plans. On your own, start with professional groups (not service groups like Rotary), your alumni office, and adult educations classes.

Reality #4: Sometimes the grass really is greener. Many people get richer and happier after they change careers, businesses and/or residences.

Reality #5: Talking to your supervisor (or your colleagues, business associates and customers) is a really, really bad idea. Share your feelings and your vision only with a trusted, confidential source who is completely unconnected to your professional life.

"Brian" is a really good friend but we don't talk about careers. When someone just doesn't get it, I recommend changing the subject to dogs, cats, basketball, and the magnificent fall weather.

Your friendship and your career change will both benefit.

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Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D., helps mid-career professionals who believe, "Life is too short to be stuck in a misery-making career."
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